I had someone tell me recently that I "don't have a job". At first I was deeply offended by this comment but then I actually thought about their words.... they were 100% right. I don't have a "job" in fact I hated being an employee.  I hated being stuck somewhere from 9-5, I hated someone else controlling my schedule. I hated feeling guilty if I had to call in sick, or worse if one of my children were sick! 

What I DO have is a LIFESTYLE. I have FREEDOM. I wake up when I want (or should I say when Anya wants) I worked at a "job" until I was 7 months pregnant with Anya. I made the choice to fire my boss and stay home with her.  I am breastfeeding and co-sleeping because I don't have to rush out the door in the morning I don't get stressed out if she's up all night. I have the freedom to nap with her the next day, not sit at my desk chugging coffee struggling to stay awake.

 She's asleep next to me as I'm writing this! 

She's asleep next to me as I'm writing this! 

I work WHEN and WHERE I want to. Some days at my desk, others at the pool or zoo with the kids. I make my schedule. I choose my team of people that I WANT to work with! I get to work and travel with my friends!! I mean seriously, how cool is that?? I'm writing my own book not reading someone else's! 

 This was a "work day" for me last month with one of my girlfriends and our kids!  I create my own goals and deadlines and I don't have a boss I don't like breathing down my neck.

This was a "work day" for me last month with one of my girlfriends and our kids!  I create my own goals and deadlines and I don't have a boss I don't like breathing down my neck.

I never miss a thing with my children, I never have to say "sorry honey mommy has to work". I decide how much money I want to make! I'm not stuck to a salary! Everything I do helps grow MY business not SOMEONE ELSE'S. The baby will be 1 next month and I haven't left her for anything work related yet....that's not for everyone but it is the choice for ME! Do you get to make your own choices like that at work??

 I was being interviewed with the baby on my lap at my kitchen table! 

I was being interviewed with the baby on my lap at my kitchen table! 

So I want to say thank you to the person who pointed out that I don't have a job! You made me remember how lucky I am and how much I love my life! I also want to say thank you to the person who introduced me to Network Marketing and taught me how to take control of my life! Is it always easy? No. But SO worth it! Is working 40 hours (or more) a week easy? No. Is sitting in rush hour easy? No. You have to choose your battles and decide what you truly want out of life!! I choose to control my own destiny, not work my life away for a company then hope that they will take care of me when it's time to retire.  

Next time you are presented with an opportunity LOOK AT IT!! What do you have to lose besides your alarm clock?!!? If you are curious about what I do or where you can start please don't hesitate to reach out!!

 Working from my family's lake house in The Smokey Mountains

Working from my family's lake house in The Smokey Mountains

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